\u0110\u1eeaNG B\u1eacN T\u00c2M CHUY\u1ec6N V\u1eb6T<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nT\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Richard Carlson<\/span>
\nNguy\u00ean Minh Vi\u1ec7t d\u1ecbch<\/span>
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40. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hy sinh th\u00e1i qu\u00e1<\/strong><\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng hy sinh, nh\u1eefng th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn trao \u0111\u1ed5i trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng hy sinh n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 bao nhi\u00eau vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c (k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t), nh\u1eefng g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0, m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu ng\u1ee7, s\u1ef1 hy sinh, s\u1ef1 gian kh\u1ed5, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nhau, ch\u1eb3ng ai gi\u1ed1ng ai. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i \u2013 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecbu ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch trung th\u1ef1c, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi n\u00e0o th\u00ec s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng t\u0103ng l\u00ean qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9. V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c o\u00e1n h\u1eadn. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, v\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ef1c nh\u1ecdc h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta (trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i) \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi hy sinh th\u00e1i qu\u00e1. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 x\u1ea3y ra b\u1edfi v\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ranh r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf kh\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00ec th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c v\u00ec nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng ai th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fat l\u1ee3i \u00edch n\u00e0o t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hy sinh th\u00e1i qu\u00e1, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao anh ta. V\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, anh ta l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u2013 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n trong \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng kh\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n bi\u1ebft bao. M\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m tinh th\u1ea7n dai d\u1eb3ng n\u00e0y v\u1eaft ki\u1ec7t h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a anh ta. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m hy sinh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay than v\u00e3n th\u00e1i qu\u00e1, t\u1ef1 tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p cho anh ta, ho\u1eb7c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn anh ta l\u00e0 thua thi\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0 anh ta th\u01b0\u1eddng mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a anh ta l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 chu\u1ed1c l\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hy sinh th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, t\u00f4i mong b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ngay \u0111i. Thay v\u00ec ti\u00eau ph\u00ed h\u1ebft sinh l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m. Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ea5y cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t th\u00fa vui nh\u1ecf. D\u00e0nh ra m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f4i ph\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 vui th\u00edch. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y kinh ng\u1ea1c v\u00ec hai vi\u1ec7c. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u vui th\u00edch v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u sinh l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1edbt \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u sinh l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c o\u00e1n h\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thua thi\u1ec7t. Th\u1ee9 hai, khi b\u1ea1n x\u00f3a b\u1ecf \u0111i s\u1ef1 o\u00e1n h\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. Thay v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang o\u00e1n h\u1eddn h\u1ecd, gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng h\u1ecd \u2013 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. N\u00f3i t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m thua thi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hy sinh th\u00e1i qu\u00e1.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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